Tuesday, October 22, 2013

Bullying: It Ain't What It Used to Be

I hope as parents, guardians, or role models, that we are teaching our children about bullying. Teach them to NOT do it, & teach them to report it if they see it happening.

It's not like it was when we were in high school. Basically, bullying led to either the bully or the bullied getting punched at the playground, they shake hands, & then share some 10 cent candy and a pop. Nowadays, somebody getting bullied can result in a school getting shot up.

Monday, October 21, 2013

The Open Cubbard

(Preview of Decem Verba ex Corde, coming soon. Enjoy)
 

(Coincidence – comprehension – restaurant – trio – wedding – formula – lemonade – intervene – roof – distraction)

The beautiful city of L’Eternel Est Roi. Saturday evening, 7:23 PM.
 
The fellas have gathered at Benjamin’s. It is a popular restaurant known for its gourmet burgers. Friends since childhood, the crew of Brandon “Nintendo” Hawkins, Coleco Brown, and Frank “October” Jones have seen the best and the worst of times, individually, and collectively. Through it all, the trio has maintained the close connection their families have shared for four generations.
 
Another commonality these men share is that they are all brothers-in-law, married to sibling women from the Green family. Nintendo has been married to Karen Green for five years. Coleco, married the longest, has been the husband of Robin Green for seven years. October and Leslie are relative newlyweds, having just celebrated their one year wedding anniversary.
 
This is a weekly chew-and-chat the guys do, just to hang out and talk about whatever is on the mind. It is a new tradition, one established by these gentlemen just six months ago. Nintendo speaks first. “Gentlemen, it is good to see you, as always. Let’s go ahead and order. We have new one joining us soon.”
 
“Who?” asked October.
 
Coleco’s eyes narrow. “Probably Angie’s dude, boy toy, man servant, whatever he is. What’s the cat’s name again? And what color is his mother?”
 
Nintendo eyes narrow at Coleco. “Why does it even matter what color his mother is? His name is Demetrius. And he’s not a boy toy. He’s Angie’s man. So chill out.”
 
The “Angie” they are referring to is Angela Green, yet another sibling. So, if you’re keeping score, this equals four Green women – Karen, Robin, Leslie, and Angela, whose boyfriend is Demetrius Gant, private detective and huge sports fan. He has just entered the restaurant and sat down with the other gentlemen. “Greetings, gentlemen. Blessings on you all,” he warmly greets them, shaking hands with each one before he sits down.
 
Nintendo: “Greetings, my brother Demetrius. We’ve started ordering already, but the waitress will be back to take your order.”
 
Demetrius gives a slight hand gesture. “I’ve already placed my order. And you brothas can relax, your meal’s on me today.” Coleco’s eyes widen. “Ohhhh! Well, welcome. I see you learn quickly. The new guy always picks up the tab on the first visit. And by the way…what color is your mother?” October throws a straw at Coleco. “Um, this is the first new guy…so knock it off!”
 
Everyone laughs. Eventually, the food arrives. Nintendo, the health conscious one, selected the Grilled Cherry Tomato Turkey Burger. Orlando chose the Chicken Caesar Burger. Coleco, the adventurous one, ordered the West Coast Burger with Roasted Pepper Spread. Demetrius played it relatively safe with the Apple Bacon Onion Ring Burger.
 
Nintendo speaks. “Alright, guys, since this is the first get together we’ve had in three weeks, let’s get caught up on the latest. What’s going on with everybody?”
 
October: “Aye Ten, you finally get that kitchen renovation finished?”
 
Nintendo breathes out a long sigh. “Yeah, man, it’s finally done. New stove and fridge were just delivered the other day."
 
Coleco: “I’ll bet your wife is happy. I would be too if my spouse just spent three grand on new appliances.”
 
Nintendo: “More like close to FOUR grand. And yes, she is happy. But you know how it goes…new kitchen, same old habits. She STILL leaves all the cabinets open.”
 
Coleco: “You serious?”
 
Nintendo: “Man, all the time. Drives me nuts.”
 
Coleco: “October’s wife does the same thing. Forever be leavin’ the cabinets open. Cracks me up.”
 
October cuts him off. “Hold on there, my brotha. You talk about YOUR wife, not mine! Don’t forget I was at your house the other day. Your wife be leavin’ the cabinets open too, bruh.”
 
Coleco: “I know. It’s just more funny when your crazy wife does it.”
 
October: “Hey hey hey! Lesley is NOT crazy. Ten’s wife is crazy.”
 
Coleco: “Ok, I’ll give you that. Ten’s wife is crazy. Ten, how many times do I gotta tell you, stop letting your wife do the chicken dance in the middle of Walmart! That ain’t Godly, son.”
 
Nintendo stares blankly at Coleco. “Look, I just let Karen be Karen. You know there’s no stopping her. Besides, I figure if anyone could appreciate it, you would. I would think you'd welcome a distraction as you’re walking through the store carrying Robin’s maxi pads and bunion soak formula.”
 
Coleco points a finger. “Hey now…my wife does not have bunions.”
 
October: “Could y’all please cool it, you’re probably scaring my man Demetrius over here.”
 
Demetrius, who has barely been able to eat his food from laughing so much, speaks to the group. “No, I’m cool. I’m just over here laughing and enjoying this. It’s funny y’all mention all this, ‘cause I go to Angela’s and cook her dinner sometimes…”
 
Coleco: “Oooooooh! So what kind of love potions do you make for her? And what color is your mother?”
 
Demetrius throws an ice cube at him. “Cut it out! But anyway, I’ll be there sometimes cooking for her, and I notice she leaves her cabinets open, too. It’s interesting.”
 
Nintendo takes a drink of his lemonade. “Let me ask you guys a question. Has it always been like this with you all?”
 
October: “Actually, no, but it has been going on for a long while. As everybody here knows, Leslie and I just celebrated one year being married. Because we both had to go right back to work, we didn’t have a chance to have a honeymoon. Leslie’s always wanted to go to Hawaii. Right after we prayed and asked God to make a way for us to go, Leslie started leaving the cabinets open. Just a habit she started.
 
“Last week, my boss informs me that I’ve won a contest I didn’t even know I was entered in. Our parent company is giving me a week-long trip to Hawaii, all expenses paid. Even our food is paid! And they gave me time off…plus, Leslie has paid time off, so we’re headed out next week!”
 
Nintendo: “That’s wonderful! Three months ago, Karen called me at work, talking about we have a leak in our roof. Estimates ranged anywhere from $5,000 to $10,000. Obviously, we don’t have that kind of money just lying around. We prayed and asked God to intervene. It was right about this time that she started leaving the cabinets open. Next thing I know, the company who previously worked on the roof sends us a letter stating that there is a warranty on the roof. We ended up having the work done for free. But it’s nothing compared to Coleco’s testimony.”
 
Coleco takes a drink of water, tears in his eyes. “Robin and I have been praying and believing for healing for our son. We’ve been to this doctor and that doctor, all kinds of therapy sessions. They said he’ll always be behind his age in comprehension and development. I know I tease Robin a lot about leaving the cabinets open, but one thing about her, she’s a woman of faith. We stood together and believed that God would perform a miracle…and let me tell you, He has! Our son is five years old, and before he had a two year old’s comprehension. Now, he has the comprehension of a six year old. He’s developing ahead of his age!”
 
Demetrius leans back in his chair, in total amazement. “Guys, Angela started leaving her cabinets open right about the time she started having problems with her hand. The doctor thought she would miss two weeks off work after surgery. We prayed about it, and when they went in to do the surgery, they found that all they had to do was clear out some tissue buildup. She was back to work within two days.”
 
Nintendo looks at everyone. “Do you realize what is happening here? I don’t think it’s any coincidence that our ladies are all leaving the cabinets open. It’s a sign from God. When we leave our cabinets open, it’s an act of faith that moves God to work on our behalf. This could very well a new spiritual tradition in our family.”
 
The dinner continues, and eventually the gentlemen walk outside of Benjamin’s to leave. As is their custom, they join hands in a circle on the sidewalk and pray for each other’s families.
 
Later in the evening, Demetrius receives a surprising text message:
 
“Aye D., it’s Coleco. Cool to finally meet you tonight. Sorry if I gave you too much of a hard time. Thanks for the meal. Treat my sister in law right! Just one question though…what color is your mother?”

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Oh, Baby

Just a quick thought about the royal baby...OVEREXPOSED!!!

Don't get me wrong...I love babies. But why are we so caught up in this baby with Prince William and Princess Kate? Didn't we fight a war so we wouldn't HAVE to think about the goings-on of Great Britain anymore?

That's like a woman being assaulted by a man who always abused her, and then she keeps up with all the details of his wedding years later. That's retarded.

Friday, July 19, 2013

Obama's Comments & the Response by the Media

Sitting here watching the President Obama press conference, I couldn't help but have a sense of pride in that our president took his time before he begin to address publicly what his thoughts were on the Trayvon Martin situation. I was impressed with the fact that he seemed to want to unite Americans rather than make this a race issue. Of course, black people say that President Obama should do the right thing as a black man in speak on the situation involving a young black man. But the reality that most black people in America fail to understand is that President Obama is EVERYONE'S president...not just president of black folks.

The President did, however, address race in a way that I thought was very positive. Rather than focus on racial profiling, he instead opted to focus more on reaching out to young African American men. Obama said we need to help them realize that this is their country... and that, as the president said, "their country cares about them."

President Obama's press conference left me with a great sense of pride regarding America. Alas, it was short lived. I had next turned to Fox News to see the interview with Robert Zimmerman Jr and his response to Obama's remarks. To his credit, Zimmerman Jr kept his responses very, very positive. But as is usually the case, Fox News once again seized the opportunity to display the organization's thinly-veiled veiled hatred of President Barack Obama.

How, you may ask? At one point during the interview  Robert Zimmerman Jr suggested that we should reach out and help all disadvantage youths in America. Being the opportunistic organization that it is, Fox News pointed out that Obama mentioned specifically reaching out to African American young men, and asked the question of whether or not Barack Obama should have included all youth instead of just saying that he needed to reach out to african-americans.

Once again to his credit, Zimmerman Jr kept his response very positive, and applauded President Obama for thinking about the fact that the youth need to be encouraged. It does, however, reinforce a very interesting point that was made earlier by Charles Barkley...the media is not innocent. Fox News certainly takes the lead in this category, as it has during the whole Obama administration sought to incite fear, anger, and hatred in the hearts of millions of Americans by indirectly blaming everything on Barack Obama. Remember, this is the same news organization that has openly and  repeatedly called Barack Obama a "tyrant," and went as far as to suggest that Obama was behind last year's meteor fragments hitting Russia.

I could go on and on about how Fox News continues to make a mockery of anything regarding responsible journalism, but I'll stop here. You get the idea...Obama has spoken, and now the country is supporting him in dealing with the Trayvon Martin tragedy. This includes the Zimmerman family. Unfortunately,  this does not include Fox News...

...but then again, I'm not really surprised.

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Welcome to My Blog!

This is the new blog spot for Mr. Revere. You'll see a lot more from me here, and not just from my laptop. You'll probably see a lot of mobile posts, being that I have the app, and I like to write a bit.

Sooo...get ready to peer into the Mind of Paul Revere. I hope to make you laugh, cry, and think. Most of all, I hope to encourage your hearts and minds...or at least challenge your paradigms.

Love,
Paul